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BUILD IT

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I’ve been thinking about Noah lately. Noah from the book of Genesis. I like to think I could be like him, but when push comes to shove, I’m not sure I’m strong enough.

How about you? Could you be Noah?

God called him to do something utterly and completely crazy.

We teach it to children with a bit of a sing-song lilt, focusing on the happy ending when most of the story isn’t happy at all.

God tells Noah He’s going to flood the earth to destroy all of humanity. All of it. Except Noah’s family if he follows God’s call.

That call? To build a boat. A giant boat. A boat that was about 450 feet long.

I can see Noah’s neighbors laughing at him behind their hands. Rolling their eyes at the religious fanatic they dismissed as crazy.

But does having a call make your crazy? Sometimes I think it’s the most sane thing in the world. That we all have a call, a unique task – something we have to build. It takes bravery and faith to do it, especially when it’s something as outrageous as building an ark.

Some say that before the flood it had never rained on the earth. I don’t know if that’s true or not, but if it is, that only adds to the ridiculousness of Noah’s task.

I wonder if Noah ever had second thoughts. If he considered never nailing those first few cypress boards together. Or if he wanted to quit halfway thorough.

The truth is, it doesn’t matter. Noah did build the ark, and because of that, you and I are here today. We come from his line. God used him to rescue all of humanity.

Noah’s crazy task had a purpose. No matter what anyone else thought, he fulfilled his call.

I want to be like Noah. I want to have a direct call from God and faithfully put in the effort to complete it. But I think I care too much what people think. I want to fit in and only stand out for good reasons. For accolades. Not because I’m weird, or crazy, but because everyone wants to be like me.

I’m pretty sure while Noah was building the Ark no one wanted to be him. But once the door closed and the rain started falling in heavy, thick drops, I bet they had second thoughts. At the end of the day, Noah wasn’t crazy. He was a hero. Why? Because he followed his call.

God said build it, and he did.

In that case, I want to be as crazy as Noah. I hope we all can be. I hope we can become more willing to be used for something bigger, and ignore the snickers and stares we get as we live out our callings—whatever it might.

 

 

HUNGRY?

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It’s been grey lately. Like, Seattle grey. Rain keeps falling and everything feels damp, even inside. Combine that with the life’s busyness and it has been weeks since we’ve been to the beach.

I realize that isn’t odd for most people. But when you are a beach girl who lives in Hawaii, it’s more than strange. It’s almost tragic.

When we packed up on Saturday morning, hoping to find a parking spot at a favorite lagoon, it felt long overdue. We watched the clouds as we drove west, silently praying that we’d find sun.

Parking. Check.
Sun. Looked promising.
Blanket out, chairs down, toes in the sand. Done.

And yet, it wasn’t enough. I thought it would be. I love the beach. How when the sun hits your skin in this tropical land it gets all the way to your bones. Warm, hot, a little scorching. Wrinkles and skin cancer be damned. It feels good.

But still, it wasn’t enough.

That day, I knew the water would be brisk. Not for tourists, but for me. After a few years here your blood changes. The fluid in your veins learns the difference between 77 and 80.

I didn’t think it would happen, not to me. That first winter I dove in the water, laughing at the locals on the sidelines who thought it was too cold to swim. And now, while I go in year-round, I can’t stay in as long in the winter before goose bumps overtake my arms and even my liver starts to shiver.

I wasn’t up for snorkeling. I knew I wouldn’t last. But the water pulled me. A blew up my bright pink inner-tube, and walked in up to my ankles. Silver fish flashed as the water licked the shore. I had to take my time. Inch by inch, letting the next part of my body get used to the chill. And then, all at once, I was there. Floating. My legs dangling, my hands paddles to take me to the rocky outcropping where yellow and black convict tang flitted away from my shadow.

That was it. That’s what I needed. In an instant, my soul was filled. The water silenced growing uncertainty about what the future holds.

As Erik and I walked along the shore, I could put words to it.

“I forgot how much the water feeds my soul,” I said to him.

He smiled knowingly and said, “I know.”

He’d been trying to get us to the beach for weeks. My agitation had been growing. My discontented heart now a regular guest at our dinner table.

But the ocean waves washed it away that day. As I dropped onto my towel, sand sticking to the gaps between my toes, everything in the world seemed right. And I realized that’s how good God is. He gives us things in this world that feed our souls. That makes us who we are, make us complete. He gives us people, places, feelings, memories. While some theologians would brush their meaning away in favor of hours spent in Scripture, for me, the beach, the waves, the water are holy.

It’s not the Bible. But it’s time. It’s time in God’s presence, and that is what I needed. That day, only the ocean would do. I couldn’t believe I had forgotten this about myself. Water is woven into the very core of by being.

I grew up with a view of Puget Sound. Every summer, I would have to be drug out of my grandparent’s pool when the sun went down. Fishing with my dad. Ferry rides to see family. Hours going up and down between lane lines in my high school swimming pool. Snorkeling.

I have never been far from water. That’s how God created me.

As we left the beach that afternoon, hungry but completely full, I realized I need to pay better attention. My husband knows. My family knows. Some of my friends even know. Why had I been blind to it? Why had I forgotten this essential part of me? What else feeds my soul that I have forgotten about?

If nothing else, I know that no matter where we live, I need water. I need to get in it. I need to paddle on top of it, kick my feet in it, float in boats on top of it. I need it because it feeds my soul and when I get hungry, I get cranky, and nothing seems right until I’m fed.

The ocean may not be feed your soul. But something does. Find out what it is and chase it, because we’ve all spent too long being hungry.

LOOSE ENDS

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One of my aunts is a tapestry artist. Another aunt is a seamstress. My mom sews, quilts, knits and crochets.

These women have all influenced my life in deep and lasting ways. One of the things I learned about from them has to do with loose ends.

If you’ve ever looked at the back of a weaving, you know there are no loose ends. Every thread—every piece of yarn—is neatly tucked into another. It looks like chaos, but it’s controlled. Those loose ends are necessary to create the perfect image on the other side.

But there’s more to it.

In knitting and crocheting one loose end undoes the entire project.

A hanging string downgrades an elegant dress.

During this season of uncertainty, I’ve been thinking about loose ends. I’m finding comfort in the idea that God doesn’t leave loose ends. He has a plan. He won’t let one loose string, one lost job, one overseas move unravel a whole life. That’s not who He is.

I was reminded of that this last week while I was on vacation on another island with my parents. You see, as a little girl we came to Hawaii regularly. It was our sun-filled escape and vitamin D fix to get us through the grey Seattle winter and tide us over until summer.

I’ve always loved Hawaii. Loved. Loved. LOVED. It felt like my home away from home. I loved the beaches, the water, the fish.

So when Erik surprised me on a family vacation and proposed in Hawaii, it was fitting. The place I had come to love collided with the man that God had given me. It all tied up so beautifully.

And then, years later, when Erik found a job here, even though I never imagined living here, I was ok with him applying. The seed God has planted in my heart as a little girl was growing.

So we moved. We plugged our sun-deprived selves into the sands of this little island and have loved it. But now that we feel unplugged, I’m trying to cling to the truth that this is not a loose end. God doesn’t do those. This will lead somewhere. It’s all part of His plan. I’ve seen it over and over again in my life.

When you are dangling, it’s hard to remember. It’s hard to believe. But I’m going to chose to.

I’m going to choose to believe this is part of the tapestry of our lives. This will get woven back in and it will be beautiful. It has to be. Doesn’t it?